Showing posts with label personality development. Show all posts
Showing posts with label personality development. Show all posts

Sunday, July 29, 2018

Be true to yourself


   

Be True to Yourself - Be You

Be true to yourself seems to be easy but it’s the most difficult task now a days because you spend half of your life pleasing others by losing yourself. You are so lost that you do not even understand you can only keep others happy when you are happy.

There is no need to please everyone or keep everyone happy because you cannot that’s impossible when I say this I mean it. Look around you will find few happy, sad and some complaining about you.

Do you want to change yourself and loved by others is that real happiness. No, get loved for who you are not for someone whom you are pretending to be. Because if you pretend then you will be confused because each person is different some may like you in this way others may not so be what you are if they like you want to be with you, they will be with you if not you know what to do.  
  
                                    Do not live to charm others live the way you want.

Wake up every single with fully you (100% you).

Because you can lie to anyone in this world but not to yourself.  In this way you not only practice to live a life with complete honesty you even pass the same energy to others.
love yoursel

People will look up to you because everyone wants to talk to people of higher values and they will respect you because you have build a trust and pure relationship with others and this time you will be praised for who you are and I am sure anyone and everyone would love this feeling.

And you know sometimes it’s ok to say no.

1      For your passion rather than doing what others are expecting you to do?
2     It’s your life and it’s definitely one, do whatever you want do not think about others.
3     Speak to yourself.
4      Stop getting judged.
5      Ask question if you need a clarification on something.
6      Just stop getting your emotions hurt.
7      Start practicing yoga, go to gym, eat if you like, shop and go on a date anything which excites you makes you happy even if you think about it.
That’s what matters in life.                                           Short life so does not waste it.
Live each day as it’s you last and yes once it’s gone it will never come back.
And as I always say keep that smile alive.

Sunday, July 22, 2018

Create your own path




                  Create your own path

Life is all about excitement and unknowing facts. We may not know a lot about us. We even lack in knowing the good and bad in us. In order to proceed in life it’s very important to listen to yourself. But actually we always wait for a motivation or understanding from someone else rather than looking for it inside. Sometime it happens with me also, No I guess most of the time I may feel I am not good at something but just after a little push I start feeling good about it. It aroused a lot of questions within me.
Why do I need someone to tell me about my qualities isn’t it strange someone had to intervene to make me realize about myself. It means I do not know who am I, so once it came into my mind no this can’t happen it might be good once in a while but not all the time.

We cannot deny that everyone is born with a dream. But most of us are unable to fulfill it because we don’t know what do we want from life and where do we want to be in future so, we start believing on destiny and forget about our dreams. In this way we not only lose our identity  but we start feeling  depressed, low in confidence and we feel  we cannot do it but that’s not correct understand  a negative thought can never put a positive impression  for any human being in this world. So look within understand your dreams and start doing hard work and one day you will definitely fulfill your dreams. We have heard our parents telling us one can achieve their goals who dreamt about it no dream no goal.

I know it’s not very easy in fact anything in life is not easy be it getting a job, house or a perfect life partner everything needs hard work. Nobody in this world can say I got everything without any hard work. You do hard work, walk towards your goal and you reach there one day with a big smile on your face. So to reach to your goal always remember to listen your inner voice and make your own path in this way you would know  the pros and cons of it and never lose hope that is something which will take you further. One cannot only expect success in life  but yes reaching to that success will definitely need to cross numerous huddles in the path.

For example we go out for shopping we see things of various colour, brand, design and etc and we get confuse then  though we definitely seek suggestions but we only feel satisfied if we get the things of our choice. it’s the same with life we get confuse, our confidence breaks down and then  we start seeking suggestions but if you go into your deeper thought you only find a solution within in.

So forget everything and follow the path which you feel is the best for you. At the end what matters is the smile. Not a life with comforts but sadness around your face.

I hope u were able to relate yourself reading this.

Let me know your thoughts.