Stop Comparing Yourself to Other People

Stop Comparing Yourself to Other People

I hope everyone would agree with me that once in lifetime we all have compared our self with others but did we ever thought that life would have been so different if we stop comparing our self to others. Because everyone is different none of us are same. And if we continue to compare our self we will never ever be satisfied and no satisfaction means no happiness. If you want to be happy make yourself better to get the best in life. But if you notice you spend half of your life comparing with others.

You always try to find happiness in others wherein it lies within you. Though it takes time but you do realize it, normally instead of thinking of doing something bigger in life you start seeing what others are doing even you start showing interest despite of knowing the fact that’s not your area of interest. Comparison is nothing it’s just a feeling comes out of jealousy and creates a great impact in your life.

It does not only affect you personally but it hampers you financially as well. Because you try to wear kind of clothes what other wear, or want to party in a place which can be quite expensive you may not realize that moment, but you only identify when you do not have enough money in your crisis. Ultimately you tried to fit in someone else’s frame which you couldn’t afford, but you get carried away by the emotions of being comparative, it blocks your mind and you were unable to see the crisis which may affect you in future it was just one example, there are many . In this way you can easily measure the destruction that has happened to you not because of someone else but for your comparative nature.

Even it might create a very anxious feeling in you and that is jealousy. Out of jealousy you might lose your friends even your loved ones why because you are trying to chase someone else’s dream rather than being happy with what you have. We see someone leading a lavish life so what we do, we start thinking that how can we acquire the same lifestyle and during that span of time you may ignore your loved ones who actually care for you but you do not understand you invest more and more of your time.

And if you do not succeed you feel bad, depressed and your confidence and morale goes down. So it did not only affect you personally but you lose a lot of time which you could have used in a productive manner.

Everything has a positive and negative impact in life instead of being negative be competitive in a positive manner. In that way you will not only be more focused but confident as well.

Here are few things which you can follow. To stop comparing yourself to others.

Always be happy for others because you know you too have a dream so put all your efforts to fulfill your dream. Because everyone is not same some may get things easily few might have to do a little more hard work to reach the goal but that’s fine it happens with everyone.

Stop looking at someone else’s life and focus on yours because you will find a lot of people do things to impress others not for themselves and even if you do the same thing what’s the difference. And some choose to show what they want so do not get dragged you have your own life so stay calm and happy.

Be confident about yourself and your work always remember confidence is something which will take you further if you find someone’s work more refine learn from it  So next time if you need to do something same sort of you can do it in much better way.

Lastly be happy for what you have and thank god for everything you have in life because few people do not even fulfill their basic requirements of life.

And keep that smile alive.

Always be confident.